How much time do you spend judging others? I’m sure some would deny it, but we are, in reality, judgmental human beings. We judge others’ words, clothing, actions… we all do this to some extent & it depends completely on how we feel about ourselves. The happier we are the less we judge. When we judge someone, we don’t feel good about ourselves, yet we wouldn’t feel good being judged, too. So we should treat people the way we want to be treated. In order to stop judging people, first we need to check the reasons that make us judge people, second we should know what judgments do to others & finally we need to find ways to judge others. We judge others for several reasons, for instance we are insecure & when being insecure or unhappy we try to put other people down. Another reason is because we are scared or afraid of those who are different from us & may judge them just because they are unlike us. We also judge people when we are lonely & we use judgments to bond with other people. Another reason for judging people is because we want our lives to be different, so we judge the lives of others because of jealousy. After pointing out some of the reasons of judging others, we need to shed some light on what judgments do. When judging others we forget that judgments hurt other people & make us feel worse about ourselves. When we judge others we bring ourselves down as well as the person being judged. We also put negativity into the world. Judgments also encourage us to judge ourselves too. Now the best ways to stop judging are thinking before we utter our thoughts & trying to change the negative into positive. The best way to stop being a judgmental person is to stop judging ourselves & to fows on our own life & the most important thing is to remember how bad it feels being judged. In conclusion, we are all the same with different potentials & abilities, & we are responsible for our own words & actions, so whether judgmental or not, ALWAYS REMEMBER TO TREAT OTHERS JUST THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED… MIREILLE KEHEYAN TERMINALE (LH)
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April 2015
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